Trying to be as positive as possible can have it knocks now and
again and you get to see patterns that you didn't see before. I find that I now
know when people are being rude by talking over me, changing the subject
in mid conversion, they don't listen to what been said when
you just "yes" or "no" "that's nice". If you
are in a conversation make sure you get your points across as well as
listen to what they have to say. It's not hard to do, but even harder is pulling
people up when they do it to you. Try it; it defiantly makes sure
they pay attention the next time.
It's time that you
got heard, no point in bottling this up just eats away at you.You don't have to
be rude back just say " you are not listening to me,
can you repeat what I just asked you?" see them squirm. Such a positive
thing to do because you are trying to make sure they hear what you have to say
as it could be something important and could be relevant to their
life.
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